Time Flies By...

My Little sister is getting married and all I can wish for her ,is a life full of Love and Happiness :)

Congratulations to both of you !!

From me to you...

	Rascal Flatts - My Wish
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Miss You

A year has passed and nothing has changed..
I still feel your presence everyday..
I pass by your chair and think of you..
Every Bird reminds me of you..
Sometimes I wonder how God could be so cruel..
And I wish things would have been different and you would still be here..
Miss You Hari and Always will
May your Soul rest in Peace

	Kenny Chesney - Who You'd Be Today
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I feel you everywhere I go.
I see your smile, I see your face,
I hear you laughin' in the rain.
I still can't believe you're gone.
It ain't fair: you died too young,
Like the story that had just begun,
But death tore the pages all away.

New Learnings...

Life is full of surprises, experiences and learning's... Just when you think you have got full control over your life...Booom..there you go..you are gifted with another set of issues to resolve..yet another set of learnings..I sometimes wonder, is it ever going to stop..Well I guess not..so lets keep learning, keep enjoying and becoming wiser with every passing day :)


My new Set of Learnings..

• you need to laugh at yourself sometimes, no matter how tough it is.
• love is not something that grows untended, marriage is not always easy, and forgiveness takes time.
• Children are the source of tremendous joy and heartbreaking pain.
• You can’t protect those you love from everything bad, no matter how hard you try.
• People will betray you, people will surprise you.
• Some things were just not meant to be, no matter how much you wish that they were.
• The grass is never greener on the other side.
• From pain comes happiness for if we did not know the feeling of sadness and sorrow, how could we ever experience happiness?
• There are no “secrets” to life.
• People that you think are your friends will talk about you behind your back.
• Never make the statement, “It can’t get any worse.”, because it will.
• Patience never comes easy.
• Money, while helpful, isn’t going to solve anything.
• Everyone has baggage.
• There are consequences for everything (good or bad).
• No one has all the answers.
• No matter how many facts you think you have, you’ll only know part of the story.
• The truth is somewhere in the middle.

Happy Birthday Darling !

Time just flies and I cant believe you are 2 already..but for me you will always be my baby..WISH U A VERY HAPPY BIRTHDAY

in the sunlight or the rain ,
brightest nights or darkest days
I'll always feel the same way
whatever road you may be on
know you're never too far gone.
my love is there wherever you may be
just remember that you'll always be my baby.

We will Transcend..

This is dedicated to all my Women Friends.
Just want to say "Thank You" for always being there in Good times and in Bad, for listening , for sharing my joy and my tears...Thank You for being my Friends

I Hope I Dance

This song is dedicated to me... no matter what life has in store for me, no matter how low I feel..
I Promise myself if given a choice to sit it out or dance
----------I will dance.................

I hope I never fear those mountains in the distance
Never settle for the path of least resistance
Living might mean taking chances
But they're worth taking
Lovin' might be a mistake
But it's worth making
Don't let some hell bent heart
Leave me bitter
When I come close to selling out
Reconsider
Give the heavens above
More than just a passing glance

And when I get the choice to sit it out or dance
I hope I dance

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Think It Over..

" Go not to the temple to light candles before the altar of God ,
First remove the darkness of sin from your heart.

Go not to the temple to bow down your head in prayer ,
First learn to bow in humility before your fellowmen.

Go not to the temple to pray on bended knees ,
First bend down to lift someone who is down-trodden.

Go not to the temple to ask for forgiveness for your sins ,
First forgive from your heart those who have sinned against you."

----Rabindranath Tagore

Everything's Amazing , Nobody is Happy

I Would Die For That

Some people try to have kids and they fail, they try over and over again...but it seems its just not meant to be..
They spend years trying and finally give up.
In India Adoption is still a controversial topic.
Its in the hands of the young educated youth like us to be open minded, to think above caste, society...
Think about the joy of carrying a baby in your hands..
Think about all the precious moments you will enjoy ..
I know it is easier said than done...but I say WHY NOT TRY.. WHY NOT TAKE THAT FIRST STEP...WHY NOT??

This is a beautiful song by Kellie Coffey

"I've been given so much
A husband that I love
So why do I feel incomplete?
With every test and checkup
We're told not to give up
He wonders if it's him
And I wonder if it's me.

All I want is a family
Like everyone else I see
And I won't understand it
If it's not meant to be.

Cause I would die for that
Just to have one chance
To hold in my hands
All that they have
I would die for that.

And I want to know what it's like
To bring a dream to life
For that kind of love
What I'd give up!
I would die for that.

I would die for that
Just to have once chance
To hold in my hands
What so many have
I would die for that."

What I want most
Before my time is gone
Is to hear the words
"I love you, Mom."

Did You Know ?

Random Thoughts...

Was listening to a talk from Elizabeth Gilbert, and this what is the take away...at times when you are worked up...at times when you feel like giving up...remember this

"Don't be afarid , Don't be daunted, just do your job .
Continue to show up for your piece of it whatever that might be,
if you job is to dance, do your dance.
If the divine genius assigned to your case decides to let some sought of wonderment
be glimpsed for just one moment through your efforts then OLAY!
& if not do your dance anyhow.
Olay to you nonetheless to have sheer human love and stubbornness to keep showing up."

My Resolution on Work Front

It s been a long time since I posted something...past few days have been very hectic at work and home.
I will rather say that past few days have a been the learning days at work. There were some thoughts running on my mind today...
I have been working for 6 yrs now and ya have met a lot of different people and came across lot of situations , however everytime I learn something new, something new about people and their thinking process and it leaves me amazed at how some people can be outright mean, while some will be superbly selfish and there are also a bunch who are really genuine and nice...Just as i was thinking all this I read this article which exactly describes what I need to do...

This article is from Dr.Zoltan's site where he talks about "81 ideas to keep in mind as you pursue your career"

Do not place yourself below anyone.

No matter how much fame, money, freedom, and material resources someone else may have, accept that you deserve to have the same, and take your own path as seriously as they do. What you do is just as valid and real. Which means that what everyone else does is also valid and real. Calm down.

Learn to say no.

People who respect and care about you will not want you to do things that make you unhealthy and unhappy.

Do not seek approval or encouragement from others.

Approve and encourage yourself. Give yourself permission to achieve your goals, simply because you want to.

Be able to make sacrifices.

Sometimes it is possible to have two things at once, and sometimes it is not. You must develop the wisdom to choose between conflicting options. There is only so much time in the day, and you have a finite amount of energy. Maybe it is necessary to give up some “normal life” things that other people enjoy. Family, relationships, entertainment, possessions, nice car, etc. See if there is anything you can put aside and enjoy later.

Do not draw a hard line in your mind

between “you” and “people who are successful.” VERY IMPORTANT: Do not let a small-town mentality infect your mind.

Money is not what the universe is made of.

Recognize its use as one tool for exchanging energy in a society, but realize that there are other ways of exchanging creative energy. Don’t get locked into only one economic system. Not everything can be measured in dollars, euros, pesos, or whatever type of colorful paper or metal you and billions of your friends are hypnotized by.

Learn to sit and do nothing.

Find a comfortable chair and do not watch television, do not listen to music, do not read a magazine. Turn off your cellphone, get away from Myspace / Flickr / Facebook and your friends or pets. Do not keep bombarding your mind with external stimulation and cramming things in from all directions. Just enjoy your own mind and realize that nothing bad is going to happen to you if you sit by yourself and shut off to the world. Look inward and see what you can find.

Make mistakes and then learn from them.

Lose money. Lose friends. Get fired from your job. Go broke. Once you hit bottom a few times, you will not make such scared decisions. You will find out that you can start over again and again, with more knowledge and less fear. Many great people throughout history have done this repeatedly. You will also find out who your real friends are.

Not everyone in the world is going to like you.

So what? It is not your job to manage or control anyone else’s likes and dislikes. Let them make their own decisions and dislike you if they want to.

Be self-sufficient and be your own best friend.

And lastly remember

Life is often asymmetrical. It can’t always be measured in nice, round numbers that are catchy and memorable.

Frustrations..............

Lately I have been hearing to so many negative thoughts from my colleagues about Life & Work ...that I think frustration has got on to me too...

Well from all the negativity around me...I still manage to dream of a life where every morning I wake up not thinking about my Target for the day or my quality graphs...but just how beautiful all the small moments are which make these 24 hrs....But everyday we fail to realize the gift of life...
We input rather sacrifice ---Time we could have spend with our family or loved ones --->>to work that extra hour and gain that extra Rupees/ promotion and the output no matter, what you do and how hard you try in the end Death is the reward..

There is an interesting transcript on reverse Living in one of the books:

"Life is tough. It takes up all your time, all your weekends, and what do you get at the end of it? Death, a great reward. The life cycle is all backwards. You should die first, and get it out of the way. Then you live for twenty years in an old age home, and then get kicked out when you’re too young. You get a gold watch and then you go to work. You work forty years until you’re young enough to enjoy your retirement.

You go to college and party until you’re ready for high school. Then you go to grade school, you become a little kid, you play, you have no responsibilities, you become a little baby, you go back into the womb, you spend your last nine months floating, and you finish off as a gleam in somebody’s eye."

New Look

Finally after trying for several days... got a new look for my blog and am all excited and Happy :)